In today’s post we shall be focusing on an important topic which is how to initiate sex with your partner. This single act of lack of courage to initiate sex has killed and still killing so many relationships. Generally, society has put the ball on the side of men to be the initiator.
According sex therapist, women are more sensitive than men that’s why sexual moves by women are not often noticed by men as they (men) are more insensitive not that ladies are not free to if they are in the mood, but they are taken to be desperate if they make the move.
Moreover, men are said to be in charge both in taking care of bills, security, and/or the bedroom play. If you often find yourself in such situation worry less you’re not alone and we have got you covered. Here in this post, we have listed simple tips on how to initiate sex with your partner.
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JUST SAY IT
This may come as a surprise to your partner but believe you me it is a hint to getting what you want. This is the best move to make when you can’t figure out the best way to perfect you’re moves. Tell him/her what you really want and as far as hr/she feels the same you must have what you ask for.
DEVELOP CODE WORDS
This has to do with a situation where children are in the picture. This option helps the lovers to deepen their love more, as no other person understands their language it is only two of them.
SEND SEXY NOTE
Another way to initiate sex is to send a mood catching note/text messages telling your lover how bad you’re dying to have it. You may send the message from your office or even while you both are in the same room.
INVITE YOUR PARTNER TO SHOWER WITH YOU
This as well is still romantic as I won’t tell you stories here. Once your request is granted, forget what will follow, it is not your job. Just write me a thank you message later (Lol).
Talk about last time you really had a good sex. This will bring him/her to the same page of what you want.
GIVE YOUR SPOUSE A MASSAGE
Engage in massage challenge, massage him/her and request to be massaged in return.
UNDRESS YOUR SPOUSE
This indicates what actually you want. You don’t need to explain further.
This method is also romantic and a good move to getting what you want.
TOUCH YOUR SPOUSE
Caressing your partner is also another way to send messages of what you want.
Through this means, both of you won’t be surprised when it is time. Make a timetable as good sex will help your relationship to last longer.
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