Here in this post, we shall be giving you all you need to know about the anxiety suffered by people when they are presented with the opportunity of talking to the people of the opposite sex that they like.
As we go about our daily activities, we (guys) often find ourselves in a situation where we feel like speaking to a beautiful lady sitting next to or a lady you are meeting for the first time.
If you have been in that situation, don’t worry because you’re not the only one in that situation. We advise you to read this post till the end as we have tips on how to start up a conversation with a girl/boy you like. Here are ways to talk to a girl/boy for the first time and get what you want.
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FIRST IMPRESSION IS THE LAST IMPRESSION
The idea of first impression being a good chance to impress is true. Here I say it is the last impression. We have the chance to make it to people that matter in our lives and if that chance is missed, it will take long time to show off what you’re made of. Meeting someone you like for the first time is actually a good chance to impress.
ASK OPEN-ENDED QUESTIONS
Asking open-ended questions is a good idea in keeping a conversation going. You must have formally introduced yourself before asking questions whether close/open-ended.
The reason for this idea is, when you ask close-ended questions I will make the conversation bored and you will not like the outcome. For instance, instead of asking “Do you have plans for the weekend”? Which she can only answer either Yes or No, ask her “what are your plans for the weekend”?.
With this question, she can answer by telling you what her plans are, and at the end try to know what your own plans are. Be constructive and don’t ask foolish questions as ladies are naturally sensitive to know when you’re losing the conversation.
BE BOLD ENOUGH
It is your responsibility to project confidence as this will make you to be in charge of your date. Having a date with a lady and taking care of the bills don’t amount to you being in charge.
You can spend a million dollars and still be shy and ruining your date. Ladies are naturally shy forget the mean faces you see. Don’t lose it, make sure you’re making proper eye contact (not to wink at her) but looking into her eyes often (not steady).
This is the best way to start up a conversation. Ladies love it when you compliment them based on what they are putting on. Tell her how pretty she is, to match clothing colour, classy handbag, etc.
DON’T OVERSTAY YOUR WELCOME
Now that you have applied the points mentioned above, this last one is very important. No matter how much you’re enjoying the conversation, take your leave when the fun is so high.
They will definitely look forward to seeing you again. But when the conversation last long until you don’t have anything left, you will start asking irrelevant questions.
With these tips, we wish you all the best as you have fun.